We Were Dying to Know How Shanola’s Real Life Husband, Daren Dukes, Handles Her Crazt Sex Scenes on the Show. “That’s Not His Favorite Part of My Job, ” She Told Us. “But What’s Really Great Is Steve Howie (Kevin) and I, We’re Very Close, I’m Very Close with His Wife, He’s Very Close with My Husband. We All Get Along Very Well. It Would Be Different If He Weren’t So Respectful, and Steve Takes Care of Me. ”